re-find the db after drop and cr-create

-n flag (dramatize)
--delete flag (delete bad pkgs from build tree)
--paranoid (double check packages with identical versions)
many enhancements to args (getopt)

added a little bit better messaging, getopts to server side, stuff for mysql access, and config file support

added support for multiple files in the client and made the file reading less memory intensive for the server (poorly, mind you)

uploading files works (only tested with one but should work just dandy with lots of files)... things like resume and authentication aren't fully implemented yet (server side is missing)